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Boxing Is A Family Affair For
The Caballeros
By Barbara Pinnella
This Saturday night Ryan
Caballero will step in the ring for his biggest fight of
his young professional career. Caballero is on the
undercard of the Chris Arreola / Seth Mitchell fight
that will be held right in Ryan’s home town of Indio,
CA. while there is no opponent named as of yet,
Caballero is ready for whatever challenge he will have
to face.
Ryan is no stranger to boxing. He comes from a boxing
family. He is also the younger brother of the good
fighter Randy, and Ryan hopes to make as big an
impression as his big brother.
There are two other boxing brothers in the Caballero
family. Besides 19-year-old Ryan and 22-year-old Randy,
there is also Robert, who is now 25 years of age and
used to fight as an amateur, and youngest brother
Rommel, who is 14 and will be the final brother to turn
pro, and he is anxiously waiting to do so.
“Robert was training but he never wanted to get in the
ring,” father Marcos said. “One day he said that he
wanted to do it. After that it was just one after
another. He started going in, and he ended up going to
the National Junior Olympics.”
According to Marcos, Randy was crying because he wanted
to be where Robert was. The solution?
“My wife Stephanie had to drive him all the way to Los
Angeles from Coachella so he could Randy could be with
his brother at the Junior Olympics, Marcos said. “It was
the first time she had ever driven to L.A. She told me
he’d been crying, what should she do? I had the car, so
I told her to rent a car and bring him to L.A.”
We all know that that
worked out well for Randy, and it was a natural
progression for Ryan to follow suit. Ryan won one of the
first belts given in Texas for a first place win in a
tournament. He was only eight years old at the time.
“We got calls from Jay Leno and Good Morning America, to
do an interview,” Marcos recalled, “because it had been
in the newspaper, and he was so little to have a belt.
Now he does better than before, but back then he
wouldn’t talk. He’ll answer questions but not talk much.
They said, ‘We love your son’s story, but he won’t
talk.’”
Ryan will get better at that – practice makes perfect,
and as he climbs the ladder he will get more
opportunities to hone his interview skills. Until then
he will just have to let his gloves do the talking
inside the ring.
Marcos was also a boxer, fighting both here in the
States as well as his home country of Nicaragua. While
he never turned pro, Marcos had enough fights to learn
the ins and outs of the craft.
There are many fathers
who train their sons, but Marcos has it a bit harder
than most. He has four sons that he trains or has
trained, not just one or two. And the more he gets into
it, the more he understands just how complicated it can
be.
“From the first day I’ve been training my kids – all my
kids,” Marcos said. “It is hard, because you have to
separate from being a father to being a trainer. It is
difficult. I thought it would be easier because you have
a good relationship, but it gets harder, especially when
they are not mentally ready.
“If they get knocked out…I do not want to see my son on
the ground. I make sure they’re 100%, but it still kills
me sometimes. Its like, ‘What if he gets knocked out?
What about this, what about that?’ I try to work with
them mentally for whatever happens. I’ve seen a lot of
other fathers who train their sons, and it’s tough. You
have to tell them the right things to win the fight. If
you don’t have the experience to do it, it all goes on
you, because you don’t know what to say. It’s very
scary.
“I’m getting more used to it now, but I still get that
nervous feeling sometimes. Especially for Ryan. Ryan can
fight, he’s not afraid to fight anybody, he has the
heart. But if I tell him to do something he won’t do it,
he does it his way. That kind of worries me a little
bit, because that doesn’t help me with him and other
opponents. So it’s just a little harder for me.”
And while Marcos might
be able to separate the father and son bond into trainer
and student, he doesn’t feel it is easy for his boys to
do that.
“I think for them, I’m the father, and they won’t
separate it. I’m tough, I’ll be honest, I’m a strong
person. I want to be sure they’re 100%, otherwise I
won’t put them in the ring. I want them to succeed. I’ve
got Randy knocking on the door, and I pray to God every
day to give us a chance to become world champion. He has
the charisma to succeed. He does everything I tell him
to, and I just hope and pray that he gets his chance –
just one chance.”
Even though there have been challenges for the trainer
and father, Marcos has never had a moment where he
wanted to bring someone else in to do the job. But he is
open-minded.
“If one of my sons would come up to me and says, ‘Hey
dad, I don’t want you training me anymore,’ I won’t get
in an argument over it. But at the moment I think we’re
good. I have helped other fighters like Antonio Diaz,
and I helped Corrales for a fight here, I have
experience. But if that happened with one of my boys I
would understand, and we would move forward.”
So on Saturday, Randy and Rommel will just have to be
content to not be in the ring fighting their own
battles, but instead watch their brother Ryan in his
second pro fight. I’m sure they won’t mind, for each of
them will have big moments of their own soon enough.
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